Thanks to one and all for your advice - situation appears to be rectified, I note here that my logic clearly isn't the same as Solis logic
I moved to off grid first but to my surprise the batteries started to charge from the grid, I then went to the CT install and switched the CT from the grid setting to PV setting - the batteries stopped charging immediately and the 6.5MW generation tat I had been seeing on the cloud app disappeared.
Getting the solis to shift from offgrid to self use was a bit of a chore, I was using the HMI to do the setting but despite doing it several times it seemed to stay stubbornly in offgrid mode, I then used techview and stood at the solis inverter and set the mode to self use and it switched instantly ??
The sun is out and we are charging once again from the big fusion reactor !
I noticed that at this time of year my mobile array is catching a lot of shade so I think thats the next thing to address - maybe less mobile and higher, optimised for November to February harvesting ? I will post my mobile 150W system in a minute for the humour
oh and then if things couldn't get much better the nice man from the garage called to say my EV6 came off the production line yesterday and is being shipped - due February according to the current listing.
Again sincere thanks to all for your advice.
Moxi